Seriously !!
Why our wedding party does not feel like Dharma production happy set! As a child I used to wonder why our family wedding does not look as fancy as our movies.
Why everybody is in hurry as if catching a train!
Ours is a joint family all closely bonded living in the same city. We practically have one or two celebration every week , be it birthday celebration to anniversary to some random wedding and others. Even if we don't invite outsiders we perfectly score century of guests. Century of family members multiplied by 10 guests we almost have a thousand guest every medium to big celebration.
From the day the marriage is arranged till the day it's executed,the pressure is so high on brides mother and father and their family. It can only be felt if you are an insider and have the opportunity to look at them from a very close range.
The pressure is not just confined to pleasing groom's parents rather they have to please every invitee ,which is close to impossible.
The bride or groom has other pressure,about their look ,about their friend their pre and post wedding shoots,how they look,their dress,their make up...bla bla.!!
When they see their parents in such chaos ,they feel as if they are making them do so.
The guilt overpowers the happiness.
The caterer, pandalwala, lightwala, flower wala, DJ and all will do their job perfectly still you will be scored very low doesn't matter how hard you try as critics are everywhere judging you on every parameter.
Khana was ok!
Decoration to esse acha falna ki mossi ki shadi me tha!
DJ ka gane ka taste thik nai hai...!!
Meanwhile,
Sharmaji ko invitation nai gaya,
cousin ki high heel toot guy,
Mossa ko loose motion ho gay,
dadi ko fever aa gay!
Generator baith gaya!
Now, arrange a jugad after all it's your child wedding.
The trickiest part is gift exchange.
Whatever clothes ,ornaments and sweets you gonna share, its never going to be appreciated.
On your face they will deny as if they don't believe in gifts and surely don't want to take it.However as they will reach their home,the real drama starts.
Aise sari...eww meri bai bhi na pehne!
apni beti ko itna diya kuch hume bhi de dete!
Esse jayda to humne de diya!
Pehle pata hota to hisab se dete...!
Guys enough ,please rise above all those thing,enough is enough.
Give blessings and keep it simple ,no exchange of gifts so that we can make it easy without any grudges.
After all,these wedding-receptions are a time to meet our family and friends so that we can enjoy together and give our blessings to the newly wed couple.
So, I would like to urge all those who are reading my blog post to try to decrease the gaudiness associated with weddings and sprinkle more fun into it so that the person organizing it can also enjoy ! After all this wedding day might be the most important day of his/ her life !!
Yes, great observation of our weddings.. But u forgot those who inflate their cheeks (gaal fulana / rusna/ruthna) at the drop of their hats for every petty things... I find that rather amusing and sometimes irritating as well!!
ReplyDeleteHaha...so true next time will focus on Rusne wale people pe😊
DeleteIt's very true yaar ....fake appreciation,gift exchange ,nega negative back sounds should be vanished after oll oll the prepration is the result of hard work and huge money throw ...we must understand their effort
ReplyDeleteYup..we as a society has to bring the change.
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